Can Everyone Be Successful in Starting Their Business?

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“Hi Celes, do you think everyone can be successful in starting their own business? I graduated from an Ivy League college in the U.S. in a science field. But since I couldn’t find any work I liked, I started my own online business.

After a year I had to close down. I failed. Do you think I can change my character to become successful as my own boss and in business?” ~ Max

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Hey Max, first off, kudos to you for taking a dip in entrepreneurship when you were unable to find a job you like. 🙂

While most people would just settle for the first job that comes their way, you took a risk and started a business instead. While you did not get the results you were looking for, this experience has undoubtedly given you important life lessons which will come in handy in time to come.

Misconception of Failure

Before I get to your question, I want to address your comment about failing. Because as far as I’m concerned, the closing of your business didn’t mean that you failed; it merely meant that you had to close it down after it failed to generate your desired results within a year.

Many people have a misconception that failure means the inability to achieve X results in Y period. That’s not true though. True failure only happens when you give up on your goals and dreams prematurely. Closing of a business isn’t the end of the story; you can always return to starting a new business (be it in the same or different field) in the future, whenever you want to.

Example: My Fears of Failing Before Starting My Business

Years ago before I pursued my passion in the form of my personal development business, I contemplated the possibility of failure. I was afraid that I was going to quit my job, dedicate X period of my life to my business, but ultimately fail, which would result in a waste of that part of my life (plus a loss of the money I could have earned from continuing my corporate job AND the jeopardy of my career path).

What if I were to fail? What was I to do then? were questions that circled my mind.

Interestingly, these questions drew blanks, for I genuinely could not think of anything I would want to do other than to be in the personal development field, work on my personal development business, and help others to grow.

Despite brainstorming for alternatives, be it to return to the corporate world or to work for some NGO which would provide some semblance of financial stability over starting my own business, these alternatives failed to enthuse me. My mind kept returning to my personal development business—basically to keep working on it regardless of the result.

I realized that even if I were to run out of financial reserves, it didn’t have to be the end of my business. I could always take up a part-time job or return to full-time employment to generate more savings, after which I could then use my spare time to build on my business. I could then repeat this as many times as needed until my business finally takes off.

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This was when I realized that it was literally impossible for me to fail unless I decide to quit on it prematurely before seeing results. After all, as long as I kept going and kept pushing through, I was definitely going to succeed at some point. Whatever I would accomplish in my business prior to “making it” (defined as achieving financial stability) could never be a waste, because it would only give me the necessary knowledge to progress further.

Realizing this was a big aha moment for me. By expanding the time frame to work on my business to infinity, failure would be impossible and success would be inevitable. By looking upon my business as a project of a lifetime rather than something where I had to “make it” in X years, I could then make decisions and action plans which would ensure my eventual success, rather than hasty plans driven by fear and not in line with my bigger vision.

Having this long-term perspective was what helped me to succeed eventually too. Within 6 months, I was featured in multiple media outlets and I had coaching clients lined up for the next 3 months. Within 1.5 years, I was earning a good-enough income, and after less than 3 years of inception, I was already generating a monthly revenue higher than my last drawn salary in my corporate job. Today, 95% of my income comes in without me having to do anything. And these results continue to build on themselves today.

Looking back, I would never have been able to achieve these results if I had anticipated failure at the start and constantly thought about when I should “quit” to supposedly “cut my losses”. I knew failure was impossible and success was imminent and this then led to my eventual success.

The One Time It Is Okay To “Give Up”: When Your Goal Does Not Resonate Anymore

So basically, my point here is that it’s impossible for you to fail unless you decide to give up yourself. As long as you keep persisting (coupled with smart work and hard work), you will eventually succeed. There is simply no doubt about it and I’m a living example of that.

That said, there is one scenario and only one scenario where you should give up on a goal/dream/business. And that’s when that goal/dream/business does not resonate with you anymore, be it due to misalignment of values, change in life priorities, or change in your life vision.

I call this conscious quitting and I have written about it before in Quitting To Win.

The Role of One’s Character in One’s Success

As for your question of whether it is possible to change your current character to become successful in business (or anything for that matter), my answer is: yes, it is very possible. 

Just as weaknesses can be turned into strengths and talents can be cultivated from nothing, personalities are 100% malleable. No matter what your character is today, you can develop a totally different character, if that’s what you desire and that’s what is necessary for you to achieve your goals.

The whole process of character transformation is exactly what I have been doing throughout my personal development journey. While I am very assertive, directive, and fairly accepting today, I didn’t used to be like this in the past. These are traits which I honed over the years as part of becoming a better person and achieving my goals.

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Be a Better Me in 30 Days Program is where I cover character transformation in detail. It comes with 30 tasks (for 30 days) including how to weed out undesirable traits, envision your ideal self, and develop your ideal traits to become your ideal self.

In Conclusion

In conclusion, anyone—in my opinion—is fully capable of success, be it in business or anything in life. I don’t see success as a function of your current or inborn character traits, as much as it’s a function of (a) your persistence, (b) hard work, and (c) smart work. Regardless of what your character is today, as long as you have the desire to achieve a goal, you will naturally change and adopt the right characteristics to succeed in that goal.

As Zig Ziglar said before, “It is your attitude, not your aptitude, that determines your altitude.“

I would like to end off with this quote on failure (and achieving success):

“Life's real failure is when you do not realize how close you were to success when you gave up.”

All the best in your ventures guys. 🙂

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