Originally written and published on 13 Feb, 2009.

“To say ‘I love you’ one must know first how to say the ‘I’.”- Ayn Rand (in The Fountainhead)

“You do not need to be loved, not at the cost of yourself. The single relationship that is truly central and crucial in a life is the relationship to the self.” – Jo Courdert

Love. Soulmate. The One. Relationship. Marriage. Eternal Bliss.

There are several topics in life which attract a lot of desperation. Love is one of them. Specifically, singlehood when it comes to love.

I know it because I’m single, and I have a lot of single friends. Over the years, I’ve constantly heard people around me, including myself, look upon friends getting attached, lament about our singlehood, about the (poor) quality of people we are meeting, why we’re not meeting our special someone, when we’ll meet our soulmate, whether we’re even have a soulmate, and so on. Even when I was surfing through the internet the past couple of days, I came across various posts and comments by different people, sighing about their state of singlehood and spending Valentine’s Day alone (it’s Valentine’s Day tomorrow as I’m writing this).

Singlehood = Incomplete?

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Somehow, the mainstream society seems to be hovering…

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Published Feb 13 2009
Filed: About Celes, Relationships, Singlehood & Dating
Tags: bgr, complete, loneliness, Love, relationship, singlehood, soulmate, valentine's day