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Top 12 Signs It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship, ManifestoSecond manifesto is Top 12 Signs It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship, part-4 of the popular 2010 series on How To Move On From Relationships. This particular article has been a hit, with many readers sharing on their Tumblrs since it was written in March 2010.

Top 12 Signs It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship, Manifesto
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Source article: Top 12 Signs It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship

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And if you’ve never read the moving on series, where have you been? :D Here is the series for easy access:

  1. How I Moved On From A Heartbreak – Part-1: My Journey With Love
  2. How I Moved On From A Heartbreak – Part-2: Heartbreak and Sadness
  3. How I Moved On From A Heartbreak – Part-3: Forgiveness, Closure and Moving On
  4. Top 12 Signs It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship
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Published Dec 9 2011
Filed: Emotional Mastery, Manifestos, Relationships, Singlehood & Dating
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Ask Celes – What Can I Do If I Want To Change Someone?

This is part of the Ask Celes series, where readers were invited to ask me anything they want. The section is now over but you can read all Q&As here: Ask Celes Section.

Hi Celes! I have one question that’s been bothering me: What to do if you want to change the people you love (their behavior, actions, even beliefs)? Like, when your husband is not doing what you’d like him to do even though you tell him about your wishes openly? I hope you understand what I mean. Thanks! – Stacey

Hi Stacey! I think the first and most important thing is to realize that it is not in our place to change others.

Everyone has his/her own say in how he/she wants to lead his/her life. This includes his/her beliefs, lifestyle, religion, career choice, circle of friends, values, goals and dreams.

While we can disagree with the choices people make, and we certainly can let them know our unhappiness with what they do, we have to respect that it’s their life and it’s up to them to decide what they want to do. To the point where we want to “change” them, reflects a disrespect of who they are as individuals and what they stand for.

This applies to everyone – be…


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Published Sep 29 2011
Filed: Character Building, Emotional Mastery, Family & Friends, People Skills, Relationships, Singlehood & Dating
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10 Steps To Move On From A Relationship

This is the last part of a 5-part series on Moving On From Relationships.

  1. How I Moved On From A Heartbreak – Part-1: My Journey With Love
  2. How I Moved On From A Heartbreak – Part-2: Heartbreak and Sadness
  3. How I Moved On From A Heartbreak – Part-3: Forgiveness, Closure and Moving On
  4. Top 12 Signs It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship
  5. 10 Steps To Move On From A Relationship


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Note from Celes: As this series conclude, I’d like to thank all of you guys for your feedback. This series has generated the most discussion to date and I’m glad my experience has helped you gain insights. For myself, reading your responses and experiences have given me the invaluable opportunity to learn more about you.

Separately, the notable discussions this has generated has made me rethink the comments policy – whether to open them by default – so I’ll write a separate post to get your votes on these. Meanwhile, please enjoy the last part of this series.

Moving On Isn’t Easy

I’ll be honest with you. Moving on isn’t easy. If it wasn’t for the experience with G, I’d think moving on is just a matter of putting the past behind us. I mean, you want…


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Published Mar 22 2010
Filed: Emotional Mastery, Relationships, Singlehood & Dating
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Top 12 Signs It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship

This is part-4 of a 5-part series on Moving On From Relationships.

  1. How I Moved On From A Heartbreak – Part-1: My Journey With Love
  2. How I Moved On From A Heartbreak – Part-2: Heartbreak and Sadness
  3. How I Moved On From A Heartbreak – Part-3: Forgiveness, Closure and Moving On
  4. Top 12 Signs It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship
  5. 10 Steps To Move On From A Relationship

Note from Celes: Thanks a lot for all your feedback for the series so far :) It seems like many of you have been/are in similar predicaments, and I’m glad that this can be of help in any way at all. I’ll leave  comments for Part-4 open as well, so feel free to comment and share your thoughts if any.


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Funny as it may be, most of the times, we aren’t even aware we need to move on from a relationship until it becomes evident. Some of us logically know we should move on – yet we linger on anyway.

For me, even though I had concluded in 2005 that I had to move on with G, I was still wrapped around in a loop in 2006, and again in 2008, because each time the circumstances gave me…


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Published Mar 16 2010
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