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Top 12 Signs It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship, ManifestoSecond manifesto is Top 12 Signs It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship, part-4 of the popular 2010 series on How To Move On From Relationships. This particular article has been a hit, with many readers sharing on their Tumblrs since it was written in March 2010.

Top 12 Signs It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship, Manifesto
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Source article: Top 12 Signs It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship

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And if you’ve never read the moving on series, where have you been? :D Here is the series for easy access:

  1. How I Moved On From A Heartbreak – Part-1: My Journey With Love
  2. How I Moved On From A Heartbreak – Part-2: Heartbreak and Sadness
  3. How I Moved On From A Heartbreak – Part-3: Forgiveness, Closure and Moving On
  4. Top 12 Signs It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship
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    Published Dec 9 2011
    Filed: Emotional Mastery, Manifestos, Relationships, Singlehood & Dating
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Ask Celes – Is It Possible To Let Go of Unhappy Past Forever?

This is part of the Ask Celes series, where readers were invited to ask me anything they want. The section is now over but you can read all Q&As here: Ask Celes Section.

Hi Celes, I’d like to know how we can let go of the past issues (be it hurtful or disappointing ones). I acknowledge the steps to letting go but certain thoughts still surface like a repeating process. Is there such thing as letting go forever? – Rine

Hi Rine, firstly, yes – one can let go forever; else it wouldn’t be called letting go! Someone who still harbors negativity about a past issue or experiences resurfacing thoughts every now and then (that’s outside of his/her control) hasn’t let go yet. If you experience a situation where certain thoughts surface on and off, that means the letting go process has not been completed.

How does one know when he/she has truly let go of something?

  1. When thoughts of the issue no longer surface out of the blue, even when you’re not thinking about it. It’s a past memory which you think about as and when you want to.
  2. When there are no feelings of negativity, sadness, disappointment, hurt, etc attached with the situation. Only a state of neutrality. (Note that neutrality and…

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    Published Sep 27 2011
    Filed: Awareness & Growth, Emotional Mastery
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10 Steps To Move On From A Relationship

This is the last part of a 5-part series on Moving On From Relationships.

  1. How I Moved On From A Heartbreak – Part-1: My Journey With Love
  2. How I Moved On From A Heartbreak – Part-2: Heartbreak and Sadness
  3. How I Moved On From A Heartbreak – Part-3: Forgiveness, Closure and Moving On
  4. Top 12 Signs It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship
  5. 10 Steps To Move On From A Relationship


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Note from Celes: As this series conclude, I’d like to thank all of you guys for your feedback. This series has generated the most discussion to date and I’m glad my experience has helped you gain insights. For myself, reading your responses and experiences have given me the invaluable opportunity to learn more about you.

Separately, the notable discussions this has generated has made me rethink the comments policy – whether to open them by default – so I’ll write a separate post to get your votes on these. Meanwhile, please enjoy the last part of this series.

Moving On Isn’t Easy

I’ll be honest with you. Moving on isn’t easy. If it wasn’t for the experience with G, I’d think moving on is just a matter of putting the past behind us. I mean, you want…


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Published Mar 22 2010
Filed: Emotional Mastery, Relationships, Singlehood & Dating
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Top 12 Signs It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship

This is part-4 of a 5-part series on Moving On From Relationships.

  1. How I Moved On From A Heartbreak – Part-1: My Journey With Love
  2. How I Moved On From A Heartbreak – Part-2: Heartbreak and Sadness
  3. How I Moved On From A Heartbreak – Part-3: Forgiveness, Closure and Moving On
  4. Top 12 Signs It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship
  5. 10 Steps To Move On From A Relationship

Note from Celes: Thanks a lot for all your feedback for the series so far :) It seems like many of you have been/are in similar predicaments, and I’m glad that this can be of help in any way at all. I’ll leave  comments for Part-4 open as well, so feel free to comment and share your thoughts if any.


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Funny as it may be, most of the times, we aren’t even aware we need to move on from a relationship until it becomes evident. Some of us logically know we should move on – yet we linger on anyway.

For me, even though I had concluded in 2005 that I had to move on with G, I was still wrapped around in a loop in 2006, and again in 2008, because each time the circumstances gave me…


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Published Mar 16 2010
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