How I Moved On From A Heartbreak – Part 3: Forgiveness, Closure and Moving On
This is part-3 of a 5-part series on Moving On From Relationships.
- How I Moved On From A Heartbreak – Part-1: My Journey With Love
- How I Moved On From A Heartbreak – Part-2: Heartbreak and Sadness
- How I Moved On From A Heartbreak – Part-3: Forgiveness, Closure and Moving On
- Top 12 Signs It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship
- 10 Steps To Move On From A Relationship
Note from Celes: Hey guys! Thanks so much for your beautiful comments, emails and private messages the past few days regarding parts 1 and 2 of the series. Every single one of your messages has brought a warm smile to my face.
Due to requests from some readers, I’ve opened up the comments section for this post. Feel free to drop a comment after you’ve finished reading part-3. I’d love to know your thoughts on this new series.
My Journey in Moving On

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Thinking About Him
After we parted ways, I focused on living my life. Staying away from G made it easier to move on. No more confusing signals to throw me off track. No more mind games. No more ambiguity. While I was hurt on the inside, at least now I could focus on…
Published Mar 10 2010
Filed: About Celes, Emotional Mastery, Love & Compassion, Relationships, Singlehood & Dating
Tags: bgr, heartbreak, Love, moving on, relationship, shadow
How I Moved On From A Heartbreak – Part-2: Heartbreak and Sadness
This is part-2 of a 5-part series on Moving On From Relationships.
- How I Moved On From A Heartbreak – Part-1: My Journey With Love
- How I Moved On From A Heartbreak – Part-2: Heartbreak and Sadness
- How I Moved On From A Heartbreak – Part-3: Forgiveness, Closure and Moving On
- Top 12 Signs It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship
- 10 Steps To Move On From A Relationship
A Standstill
The strange thing was, while G constantly hinted his interest in me, nothing ever happened beyond that. For several months, we trod on the very thin line that segmented close friends from a couple. Many of our coursemates thought we were a couple because we were so close. For what it was worth, I subconsciously thought so too, just that it wasn’t officialized.
I never took any overt action because I belonged to the old school thinking when it came to love. I didn’t think I should initiate anything if it was socially recognized that guys should take the lead. I guess more importantly, I wanted to protect my pride.
However, the lack of progress on the situation baffled and frustrated me. I asked myself: “Why isn’t he doing anything? What is stopping him? What…
Published Mar 9 2010
Filed: About Celes, Emotional Mastery, Love & Compassion, Relationships, Singlehood & Dating
Tags: bgr, heartbreak, Love, moving on, relationship





