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[Pic] How To Create More Meaningful Relationships, Manifesto Version

Here’s one to remind us that the first step to building great relationships (be it with our family, friends, or partners) always starts with us:

How To Create More Meaningful Relationships Manifesto
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Source article: How To Have More Best Friends in Life: The Heartfelt Guide

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How To Have More Best Friends in Life: The Heartfelt Guide

Best Friends in Life

(Originally written and published on May 17, 2011.)

Have you ever experienced times when you want a listening ear, but you can’t find one? Times when you feel lonely and down, but there’s no one you can speak to? Times when you wonder how you can have all these friends and contacts in your social media list and phone book, yet you’ve never felt more alone in this world?

I felt exactly like that last week.

Aloneness in a Sea of Friends

Last week, I was feeling depressed about something (not relevant to this post, and I don’t remember what it’s about anymore though I’ll be sure to write about it the next time it comes up) and wanted to talk to someone about it.

As I looked through my phone list for someone to reach out to, I realized to my utter disappointment that there was no one I felt I could talk to.

This is not the first time I felt this way. There have been other times where I felt there was no one there for me in this world. Times when I was down and out; when I felt I needed a break (not a rest, but like a break from the world); when I felt…


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10 Useful Tips To Make New Friends

This is part of the Dealing With People series.

  1. How To Deal With Energy Vampires
  2. 7 Tips To Tackle Naysayers in Your Life
  3. 8 Helpful Ways To Deal With Critical People
  4. How To Deal With Dishonest People
  5. How To Deal With Rude People (3-part series)
  6. 10 Tips To Make New Friends
  7. How To Handle Bullying: An Important Guide


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“Hi Celes, I have a small group of friends as I’m a shy person. I’m not really confident enough to go out and meet new people. I would like some advice on how I can meet new people and get more friends.” – John

Making new friends can be intimidating, but it’s definitely rewarding. After all, friends form a big part of our life. They are the ones who walk through life together, share our ups and downs and joys and pains. Without friends, life wouldn’t be the same at all. We wouldn’t be who we are if not for them.

If you are looking to make new friends, you have to get clear on what kind of friends you want to make. Broadly speaking, there are 3 types of friends. (more…)


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Why I Parted Ways With My Best Friend of 10 Years


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(Original post written and published on Jan 29 2010)

Have you ever had a friendship which you had to let go in order to move forward in your growth?

I have. It was with one of the closest friends I have ever had – someone whom I’d refer to as K. K and I knew each other for 10 years and were best friends, before we parted ways last year (2009).

How We Knew Each Other

I first knew K when I was 15. That was 10 years ago. I remember at that time, I was learning web design as a hobby and was setting up my first website. As my webhost (I was using Crosswinds at that time) was frequently down, I would often visit their IRC support channel to check out what was wrong. (Those were the good old days when IRC and ICQ ruled the world of online chat.)

There, I came to know K, who was one of the support volunteers. K was 27 and from America. Even though we were from different backgrounds and were 12 years apart, we hit it off very well. There was another girl – M, same age as me, whom we acquainted with in the chat room too.

Before we knew it,…


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